“What I do speaks louder than what I say.”  We know that saying to be true, but do we live it?  As a parent, as a leader, as a role model to our siblings, neighbors or fellow church members…  Each of us models behavior regarding what is good, acceptable and right(eous) behavior. My first Navy … More Lead by example: Peer pressure & temptations

Consider for a moment the value of a “reverse” bucket list.  Instead of focusing on that which you wish to accomplish, consider that which has already been accomplished in your life.  A reverse bucket list can motivate you to move forward and can give you a sense of peace, meaning and purpose.  Make a list … More Is your life a rusty bucket?

There is an abundance of good (and some not-so-good) online Bible resource and reference tools and online apps.  There are two that I use on an almost daily basis that I’d like to share with you because they are so useful and theologically solid.  The first one is the “Topical Bible” which can be found … More Bible resources online for discipleship and inspiration

When I became a new, young Christian at age 12 by virtue of a Billy Graham Crusade, I truly became a “new creation” (2 Corinthians 5:17).  But spiritual growth and maturity was slow and uneven.  I backslid frequently into my adult life.  I did not have a firm Biblical foundation.  How wonderful would it have … More Discipling a new Christian

I recently had a leaking main water pipe coming into our house and ended up selecting a company through an internet referral site.  The work they did was quite competent, but I couldn’t help but notice that one of the two plumbers, apparently the younger apprentice, seemed somewhat distracted and sullen.  He was also a … More How to disciple a total stranger (even though you may be terminally timid)…

We are all disciples of someone or something.  And we are also (whether consciously or purposefully or not) disciplers of someone or something.  A disciple is a follower of someone or something.   I.e., we follow a charismatic leader, a cause, an idea.  In other words, our thoughts and behaviors are inflenced by another.  For example, … More Discipling: Who and what?

What do sports activities have to do with leadership?  Plenty!  Getting involved in a team sport at a young age (or as early as possible) is a terrific way to learn teamwork, build healthy relationships and establish a satisfying and physically active hobby for a lifetime.  Growing up, we had a very sports friendly neighborhood. … More Sports and leadership

Can a 21st century church, military, family or corporate leader identify with the leadership challenges that Jesus faced 2000 years ago?  Let’s take a closer look.  Are you faced with any of the following challenges: Managing a group with great potential but little training and experience?  (Think disciples who are fishermen, tax collectors, tent makers) … More Leadership: Is Jesus’ leadership style relevant today?

”Lessons from the greatest leadership role model of all time” is the subtitle of Ken Blanchard’s newest book, “Lead Like Jesus”.  John Ortberg offered a somewhat humorous proof of Jesus’ enduring reputation as a leader by the fact that people proudly name their children today “Matthew, James… and Mary, and we call our dogs Nero … More Lead Like Jesus

Ever have the feeling of people looking right through you as though you’re not there?  Either your presence is not sensed or the other person is in a different time and place.  Perhaps the one(s) you’re with are sensing that you aren’t even aware of their presence.  There is a current trend in psychology called … More Are you invisible?